fodf<dia yeúßÈ orejdf.a we| háka u;=jqK ìysiqKq wj;drh
f,a fmfrk lgj,a iys; ñkSlk hlaIhka wm yuqjg tkafka fufyuhs
ñka uo l,lg by;§
ufkda ffjoH m%;sldr ,nd .ekSu i|yd jhi wjqreÿ fod<yl msßñ orejl= ud fj;
tlalrf.k wdfõ Tyqf.a ujqmshkah' fï orejdf.a úfYaI;ajh jQfha lf¾ ly" r;= yd
l¿ kQ,a fmdgj,a
lsysmhla m<|jd ;sìuhs' —mq;dg ks;ru wj;dr fmakjd' thd talg nh fj,d thdg f;dú,hla lr, wdrlaId kQ,l=;a oeïud'
jevla jqfKa kE' mq;df. biafldaf, m%skaism,a i¾ ;uhs lsõfj fvdlag¾ flkl=g
fmkakkak lsh,'˜
orejdf.a uj lSfõ
fndfyda wúysxil f,ih' bkamiq uu orejdf.a frda. ;;a;ajfha iq,uq, úuiqfjñ' Tyq tu
ujqmshkaf.a jeäuy,a orejd jQ w;r jhi wjqreÿ myl ke.‚hlao Tyqg isáhs' Bg i;s
y;rlg muK by;§ Èkla fï orejd isysfkka nh ù lE.id wjÈ ù we;' o< folla iu.
w;sYh úlD;s uqyqKla we;s woaN+; ukqIHfhl= ;ud ÿgq nj tu orejd ta fudfydf;a lshd
;sì‚' bkamiq jßkajru rd;%sfha wjÈfhka isák úg§ Tyqg fï woaN+; rej fmkS laIKfhka
ke;s ù f.dia we;' jfrl we| háka tu woaN+; rej u;= jQ w;r ;j;a úfgl cfk,aj,ska
tì n,kq orejd oel ;sfí' ta wjia:djg orejd uy yäka lE.id wjÈ fjhs'
bkamiq lÜgäfhla ,jd
wem kQ,la oud bka i;shlg muK miq ksjfia f;dú,hla iQodkï lr ;sì‚'
fï orejdf.a ñ;a;‚h
tkï mshdf.a uj ñhf.dia ;snqfKa Bg udi ;=klg muK l,sks' weh Ôj;aj isáh§ fï
orejdg fndfyda fihska wdorh l<dh' orejd ;=<;a ujqmshka flfrys fkd;snqKq
we,aula ñ;a;‚h flfrys ;sì‚'
—tl;a tlgu Th kï wr
ueßÉp WkaoE ;uhs' ueß,;a orejj od,d hkak nerej fuydgu tkak we;s' wi,ajeisfhda
l;d jQy'
uu fï orejdf.a mjqf,a f;dr;=re ;jÿrg;a úuid ne¨fjñ'
tu ñh.sh ñ;a;‚h
Ôj;aù we;af;a Tjqka iu.h' orejdf.a
foudmshka iq¿ foag;a lEfldiaika .iñka ks;r w~onr lrñka Ôj;a jk whhs'
foudmshkaf.a fï wdrjq,a jvd;a n,mEfõ fuu mq;=gh' tu.ska Tyq oeä udkisl mSvdjla
w;a ú| ;sì‚'
fï fya;= u; orejd
jvd;au ióm jQfha ñ;a;‚hgh' weh fï orejdg fndfyda wdorh mEjdh' ke.‚h ,enqKq miq
fï orejdg ujf.ka ,efnk wjOdkh ke.‚hg;a fn§ .sh ksid orejd ta wvqmdvqj msßuid
.;af;a;a ñ;a;‚h fj;sks' fï wdldrhg orejd;a ñ;a;‚h;a w;r úi,a ne£ula meje;sfhah'
Èhjeähdj we;=¿ frda.
lsysmhlska mSvd ú¢ ñ;a;‚h yÈisfhau ñhf.dia ;snqfKa ñka isõ uilg muK fmr§h'
fndfyda fokl=f.au woyi jQfha orejd flfrys fifkyiska ys| ñh.sh ñ;a;‚h N+;d;auhla
,nd orejd fj; meñK we;s njh'
bkamiq N+;d;auh m,jd
yßkakg f;dú,h l< ojfia rd;%sfha isg mia yeúßÈ ke.‚hg;a whshdg fmfkk N+;hd
fmfkkakg mgka f.k ;sì‚' kuq;a whshd fuka kx.S Bg ìh fkdjQ w;r ;ukag ysá yeáfha
olskakg ,enqKq ta rejg fi,a,ï nvqj,ska iy .,a legj,ska oud .ikakg weh fm<UqKdh'
ta wkqj N+;d;aufhka wksis n,mEula ke.‚hg we;s fkdú‚'
orejdf.a frda.
;;a;ajh iïnkaOfhka .eUqre f,i lreKq úuiSfï§ jeo.;a f;dr;=re lsysmhla biau;= lr
.; yels úh'
fï orejd isáfha
udkisl mSvkhlsks' m<uqfjks fya;=j ujqmshkaf.a w~onrh' B<Õg tu mSvkh ;j;a
j¾Okh jQfha Tyqg fnfyúka wdorh l< ñ;a;‚h ñhhdfuka we;s jQ úfhda ÿlo Bg
tl;=ùu ksidh' fï w;r wdÉÑj ySfkka fmkqfKa tfyu keoao" wdÉÑ oeka fldfy yß
b|, mq;d Èyd n,df.k we;s jeks wm w;r ;sfnk idïm%odhsl u; jeäysáhka úiska fï
orejdf.a uki ;=<g oud ;sì‚' tajdo oeäj Tyqf.a isf;a ldje§ meje;sfhah' fï w;r
fï jhfia orejka rEmjdysksfhka olsk ldgQka jevigykaj, ys¢k uk(l,ams; woaN+; pß;
ksid yg .kakd ufkda Ndjhkao fuhg tl;= úh' fï ish¨ foaj,a ksid úúO Ñ;a; rEm ukfiys yg .ekSu
isÿfõ' jHdc N%dka;s ^pseudo hallucinations& f,iska tlajru fofk;a bÈßmsg ueù fkdfmkS hkafka tajdh'
jHdc N%dka;s
ms<sn|j wfma iudch ;=< fndfyda fokl=gu jegySula ke;sjd úh yelsh' jegySula
;snqK;a Bg jvd wm leu;s jkafka cdk u.ska iy ixialD;sfhka wmg Wreu jQ fyd,auka
wj;dr .ek úYajdi lrkakgh'
oeka wms fï jHdc
N%dka;s fyj;a wj;dr fyd,auka jeks oE iy tajd we;sjk fya;= .ek mq¿,aj úuid n,uq'
jHdc N%dka;s fya;= .Kkdjla ksid we;s úh yelsh'
wêl f,i jev lrk úg
we;s fjk ;on, udkisl wd;;sh" frda. mSvd ksid is; lh fol ÿ¾j, ùu" ;ud
w;sYhska wdorh l< flkl= wE;a ùu fyda ñhhdu ksid we;sjk ;on, úfhda ÿl jHdc
N%dka;s lrjkakg iu;a fya;= w;ßka lsysmhls'
tfiau ;j;a fya;=
;sfí' ndysßka ikaksfõok ke;s md¿ ia:dkhl l,la .; lrkakg isÿùu" úúO o¾Yk
olakg fkdue;s taldldÍ oiqkau tl È.g olakg ;sfnk wêfõ.S ud¾.hl taldldÍ f,i ßh
meoùu jeks ;;a;ajhkaj,§ wmg ndysßka wefik fohla fyda úfYaIfhka fmfkk hula ke;s
ksid fud<h ;=<u úúO úúO Ñ;a; rEm ueù tajd wmg úúO rEm f,i fmfkkakg;a úúO
Yío f,i wefikakg;a mq¿jk' wj;dr fyd,auka
f,i flkl=g yeÕS hd yels fïjdo jHdc N%dka;s fõ'
wj;dr fyd,auka .ek
;Èka úYajdi lrk whgo tu úYajdih ksid ukfia wefËk Ñ;a; rEm fofk;a wNshi fmkS
fkdfmkS hkakg;a" lgy~j,a Yío f,i weiS fkdweiS hkakg;a mq¿jk' úfYaIfhka
ksy~ rd;%S hduhkays fï ;;a;ajh jeäh'
mjqf,a wfkla wh iy weiqre lrk wh
wj;dr fyd,auka úYajdi lrkafka kï
iy Tjqka ta iïnkaOfhka wid oel we;s foaj,a ks;r l;dny lrkafka kï tajd udkisl
wekjqï ^SuggeStions& f,i ukig ldje§ ta wkqj tjeks úYajdihla ke;s flkl=g
jqj;a fyd,auka wj;dr f,i jHdc N%dka;s we;s ùug mq¿jk'
iuyr wh tjeks udkisl
wekjqïj,g Ndckh ùfï yelshdj jeäh' ta fm!reI;ajh ÿ¾j, ùu iy wkqka u;u ;SrK .kakd
wkqkaf.ka hefmk fm!reI;ajh ^Dependnt personality& ;sìu jeks fya;= u;
myiqfjka udkisl wekjqïj,g k;= jk ksidh'
tjeks whgo jHdc
N%dka;s yg .; yelsh'
wij,a ;ek fyd,auklaa
;shkjd lSm fofklau nh fj,;a ;shkjd hehs ljqreka fyda lsõfjd;a th oeäj ukig ld
jeÿKq whl= tu ia:dkfhka hk úg ta úYajdih ksid isf;a wefËk Ñ;a; rEm ienEjgu
fofk;a bÈßmsg o¾Ykh jk wdldrhla fmfkkakg mq¿jk' ta wkqj ta mqoa.,hd ;ud o tu
wj;drh ÿgqq nj fiiq whg lshk úg tu wj;drh ms<sn|j ;sfnk úYajdih Tjqka o
;yjqre lr .kq we;' túg Tjqkago tn÷ jHdc N%dka;s yg .ekSug yelshdj ;sfí' wj;dr
fyd,auka ms<sn| úYajdi me;sfrkakg;a n,mdhs'
fï yereKq úg jHdc
N%dka;s yg .kakd udkisl frda. o ;sfí' Nskafkdakaudoh ^Schizophrenia&"
úYdoh ^DepreSsion& jeks udkisl frda.j,§ yg .kakd N%dka;suh ;;a;ajhka tu
frda.Ska fyd,auka wj;dr f,i úYajdi lrk w;r Tjqka tajd wfkla whg mjik úgo ta who
fïjd wod< udkisl frda.fha
,laIK nj fkdoek
fyd,auka wj;dr f,i úYajdi lrkakg fm<ôh yelsh' ysiaàßhd fyj;a udhd frda.h
kñka y÷kajk ú>gkdndOh ^Dissociative diSorder& frda.h we;s whf.ka ,efnk
udkisl wekjqï u; wfkla whgo jHdc N%dka;s
we;s ùug yelshdj ;sfí'
wms th ;jÿrg;a
meyeÈ,s lr .ksuq'
ysiaàßhd ;;a;ajh u;
hï mqoa.,hl=g ;ukaf.a ksjfia N+;hl= isák njg jHdc N%dka;s wikakg;a olskakg;a
,enqfKa hehs is;kak' ta wkqj N+;hdf.ka úúO lror úm;a meñfKk njg úYajdifhka
N+;hdj mkakd oeóug ksjfia f;dú,hla jeks fohla lrkakg fm<ôh yelsh' f;dú,fhka
miq N+;hdj tu N+ñfhka msgux l< nj ksjeishka mejeiQ miq tu N+ñfhka msgux jQ
N+;hd oeka ;ukaf.a ksjig meñK we;ehs wi,ajeishl=g yefÛkakg neßlula ke;' tfia
yefÛkafka kslkau fkdfõ' ta ksjig msg msgu frda. mSvd" mdvq jeks úúO lror
we;s jQ l, Bg idOdrK fya;=jla is;d.kakg
neß jk úg§ N+;fhl= jeks fkdfmfkk n,fõ.hlg th mjrkakg wm leu;sh' flfia fyda fï
wdldrhg tlu .fï ksfjia lsysmhlu wh jqj
ta N+;hd ksid ;ukag;a lror we;s ù
;sfnk nj úYajdi lsÍug fm<ôh yelsh' fï ;;a;ajh y÷kajkafka iuQy udhdj fyj;a
¾pbb ârMn{mVp f,isks'
wêl f,i u;ameka mdkh
lrkakg fhduq jQ whl=g tljru th k;r lrkakg isÿ jQ úgo jHdc N%dka;s we;s fõ' fï
wkqj úúO ñksia yd i;aj rEm úlD;s wdldrfhka Èia úh yels w;r Tyqg wj;dr fmfkk njg
mjqf,a wh o
úYajdi lrkakg fndfyda úgu yelshdj ;sfí'
u;aøjH ksido jHdc N%dka;s yg .kS'
flfia jqjo fyd,auka
wj;dr jeks .=ma; foaj,a ms<sn| l;d wikakg tjeks fmd;m; lshjkakg fndfyda fokl= leu;sh' tjeks foaj,aj, l=;=y,h meje;Su
ksid;a wdfõ.YS,S njla ta ;=< /£ ;sfnk ksid;a wfma há is; ;=< tajd flfrys
iyc wdYdjka mj;shs' fï l=;=y,hg yd wdfõ.hg we;s leue;a; ksidu .=ma; foaj,a
ms<sn|j ;¾ldkql+,j is;d neÆ l, tys i;Hhla ke;ehs yefÛk úg mjd tu ;¾l mfil ,d
tajd úYajdi lrkakg ñksiaiq fm<ö isá;s'
wfkla w;g úYajdi
lrkakg ñksiaiq mßKdufhkau wm ;=< l=;=y,h mj;sk w;r ta ksidu ryia fidhkakg yd
w¨;a
w;aoelSï ,nkakg oeä jqjukdjla wm ;=< mj;shs' ukqIHhka f,dj b;sß ù mj;skafka
ta fya;=j ksidh'
ke;akï ;j;a fndfyda
j| ù f.dia isák i;ajhka fuka ñksia i;ajhkao fï jk úg f,dalfhka j| ù f.dia
;sfnkakg mq¿jk' fï wdfõ.YS,S nj iy
l=;=y,h ksidu wj;dr fyd,auka iys; Ñ;%mg krUkakg;a wm leu;sh' Ñ;%mgh ;=<
wj;dr fyd,auka igka lrñka ùr l%shdjkaj, ksr; jk úg wmsÿ ukiska Bg iïnkaO fjuq'
kuq;a wmg ta igkska lsisÿ ydkshla fkdjk nj wfma is;g iShg iShlau iy;slh' ta th
Ñ;%mghla nj is; okakd ksidh' fï wkqj wmg
oefkkafka wm wdrlaIdldÍ n,fldgqjl ys| igkg iïnkaO jk wdldrfha ix;Dma;su;a
yeÕSuls' Ñ;%mgh wjika jk úg tys pß;j,g fudkjd jqK;a wmg lsisÿ wk;=rla isÿ fkdùu
hkq wm ch.%yKh lsÍuh' fï ksid wms tjeks foaj,a kej; kej;;a krUkakg fm<fUuq'
wj;dr" fyd,auka wdÈh .ek wm ;=< iyc wdYdjla mj;sk fya;=j oeka Tng
meyeÈ,s ù we;ehs is;uq' ta wkqj fïjd wm ;=<u we;sjk jHdc N%dka;s nj ufkda
ffjoH úoHd;aulj fuf,i meyeÈ,s lr wka úfgl mjd
tajd ms<s.kakjdg jvd neyer lrkakg wfma is; m%sh lrkq we;'
úfYaI{ ffjoH rEó
rEnka
idlÉPd lf<a bkaÿ
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